Yes He Cheats, But He Loves Me!


I’m pretty sure I’m not the only one that feels totally boggled by the cheater that claims they love their mate. Believe it or not, in their hearts, they really do.  A cheater will decide that they love their mate, but their partner just doesn’t fulfill all their needs. Most of the time they have secrets they would rather their mate not know. Sometimes their partner is not willing to do certain things in bed, that they may be particularly fond of. Even though morally this is considered wrong, logically it makes sense.

A man could have a beautiful loving woman at home, who is also the mother of his children. Yet, this same man could have a mistress or two on the side who fulfills his sexual desires. While his darling girlfriend isn’t fulfilling him sexually, she still loves him, and he’s fulfilled in that manner. On the other hand, he has sexual needs too. This is where mistress comes in to play, she helps fulfill his sexual desires, but she doesn’t have the qualities that he loves in his girlfriend.

To some, it is common sense that cheating on your mate can and will tarnish your relationship.  Some cheaters believe it’s better they keep the dark secret of cheating, and continue to go outside the relationship. Dolly Parton was quoted in the Daily Mail saying:

If we cheat we don’t know it. So if we do cheat, it’s very good for both of us. I don’t want to know it, if he’s cheating on me.  If I’m cheating on him, he  wouldn’t want to know it. And if we do, if that’s what’s making it work, then that’s fine too.

Sure that’s what works for their marriage. As I’ve stated in previous articles, “What works for one relationship, might not work for yours.” Secrets and lies take away from what a beautiful relationship should and could be. It very well may be true that your guy loves you, and you haven’t fulfilled him to his standards.  However, stepping outside the relationship isn’t healthy.

Understand this; there’s no reason to cheat. That is what communication is for. With that being said, allow open communication to be the standard for your relationship. Be open to new ideas that your guy may have. At the same time, set a certain standard for yourself as well, you don’t deserve to be cheated on, no matter what the reason.

Loving my DID’s,

Dree Bo



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