SEX 101: WHAT HE WANTS YOU TO KNOW

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Dear Damsels,

The guys have spoken! We have some things to fix in the sex department. I don’t have a reason to give you a long drawn out lecture before I tell you what they have to say, you just have to listen up and take heed.

Here are the things the guys wish we didn’t do and a little help along the way:

1.  Unsure of what to do: What do you mean you don’t know what you want in bed? If you don’t know what turns you on or what your partner should do to get you in the mood, then you’re going to have a hard time reaching climax, and so will he. Learn what positions you like best. Experiment. You have to learn to let all inhibitions go. In a perfect world, men can read our minds. The reality of it is this, they don’t, and they never will. Even if they could read our minds, they would be too lazy to tell us all the things we desire.

2.  Lack of confidence : I can’t say this enough. Men are NOT into a woman that lacks confidence. They’re especially not into a woman that lacks confidence in the bedroom. Yuk! That’s not hot. A man has a mind for sex and he has a mind for real-life. Your goal in the bedroom is to turn his “sexual brain” on and leave it there. Your body appearance conversations can come up later. As for right now, you are the fantasy woman you picture yourself to be. Great self-esteem is HOT!!

3.  Stop planning sex : Nobody likes a routine. I repeat, nobody likes a routine. If you always have a time or place for sex, you’re boring in bed. Point. Blank. Period. How do you set a time to be freaky? You don’t. What if you fall short of being in the mood during one of your scheduled sexcapades? It’s important to have time for sex, but it’s different from planning it down to the time and place. Thumbs down to that. If there’s a will, there’s a way. There’s rarely a good excuse for lack of sex, including children. You have to give it a go when the time presents itself.

4.  Fear of the penis: Guys hate when you act like you’re disgusted with their penis. Especially, the secretions from their penis. This is one of the biggest turn offs a man can experience. You know that sex gets messy. The easiest solution is to have a towel near. Even if it’s spur of the moment sex, you have a way of preparing in advance.  Always keep a towel or cloth in the pillow case or under the mattress. Whatever you do, don’t appear to be grossed out! It’s really not a big deal, just take a shower!

I hope that you all are able to avoid some of the sex mishaps we may encounter. As we all know, even though sex isn’t a foundation of a relationship, it plays an important role. You want to be able to always have a little spontaneity. I leave you with a quote:

” There’s nothing better than good sex. But bad sex? A peanut butter and jelly sandwich is better than bad sex.” – Billy Joel

You’re better than a peanut butter and jelly sandwich!

Loving my DID’s,

Dree Bo

 

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